It’s Breast Cancer! Ugh

April 26, 2023

It’s cancer.  Not something you ever expect to hear.  Last Tuesday I had an appointment scheduled with my general doctor to check out a lump I noticed.  That kicked off a week of craziness. Wednesday a 3D mammogram and ultrasound. Friday a biopsy.  Monday a formal breast cancer diagnosis. Tuesday detailed lab results breaking down the detailed make up of my cancer.   That’s the bad news, the good news I have the most common kind of breast cancer and at this point they don’t think it’s spread to lymph nodes yet. I caught it early.  (Note: later I learned that this was not accurate).

Next Wednesday Nick and I meet with the specialists where we create the plan of attack and likely do a biopsy of lymph nodes to confirm it has not spread. Certainly NOT what I had on the agenda for the next many months but stuff happens, I got this! I am blessed with a great support system and access to excellent medical care. I look forward to looking back at this time as nothing but a speed bump in my journey. However, I sure would value your prayers for my family. No one person goes through cancer alone, that person’s family and friends do too. Much love 💕

May 5, 2023 UpdateMastectomy Scheduled

Sounds like I have a breast cancer elimination plan. Looks like May 17 for a mastectomy. Based on pathology from the lab will determine whether I need chemo and radiation after I heal. Then reconstruction at the end of the journey. Thank you for all the support and prayers, I am blesssed. I’m rocking pink hair for the journey!

May 17, 2023 Update – surgery day!

Hi Breasties! Today is surgery day. I feel ready. I am so grateful 😇 for the love and positive vibes – thank you! I’m specifically praying they find no spread to lymph nodes.

Going Pink!

Published by valvelde

Breast Cancer Survivor. Mom of three. Lover of all things Agriculture. Living with Ankylosing Spondylitis (AS), autoimmune disease. Stories from my life.

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